Finding your Twin Flame
By admin on Mar 18, 2008 in FEATURED GUEST on Quantum Radio
Finding Your Twin Flame
Hello, seekers of Twin Flame relationships! Looking for the relationship that fulfills your Soul? Read further and learn 5 steps which will enhance your energy field allowing you to unite with your Twin Flame. As you “remember” the information presented, your feelings of being “all one” with the creative source will flood your DNA and cells raising your vibratory rate to be a magnet for creating the relationship that is divinely yours.
Oh where, oh where can my perfect mate be? Oh where, oh where can they be? Once you meet someone and establish a base level connection, do you find yourself thinking this could be the one only to have the relationship fall apart in the not very distant future? Does that cycle constantly replicate itself? What can be done to improve your probability to make the right connection? Plenty! Let’s side step all of the drama and unearth your ideal relationship with the steps outlined below.
When we meet someone that we are interested in romantically, often we are so overwhelmed with the ecstatic electric/sexy energy flowing between us that we often overlook the raw energy that is really being presented. That raw energy is not something that we perceive with our 5 senses. Most people have a gut feeling about someone they have just met. The gut intuition is the raw true energy that a person radiates. Many people over look that sensation because they want to be in relationship and they feel they can heal or “fix” the other person.
Betty met Jim the day after Thanksgiving at the local mall. Her energy was emitting at a low frequency because she was disheartened about not being in a relationship at the beginning of the Holiday season. She felt alone, she felt like a loser, she felt unloved. Her parents were expecting her to be “settled” by now. Jim was in the same space as he and his ex girlfriend had just broken off their relationship 2 months earlier and he had yet to make another connection. Both parties had bought into the mass consciousness mind set that if you are not in a relationship during the Holidays it is impossible to be happy alone.
When Jim approached Betty and asked her to go for coffee, he had her full attention. It seemed like love at first sight. They were inseparable for 6 weeks (the Holiday season) then as quickly as they began they ended. What happened outside of the obvious? They had not prepared themselves for the meeting. They did not have clarity about what they really wanted nor did they utilize the energetic tools of creation to co-create a deliberate conscious relationship.
Let’s talk about the 5 steps.
1. Clarity is a co-first step with desire. Having a desire or wanting something is essential in order to have a point of creation. Dictinary.com defines desire as “to express a wish to obtain; ask for; request”. By writing down what you desire you are able to literally see what you are asking for. So many people keep everything in their heads which is cluttered with all of our other thoughts. (Studies have shown that the average person thinks 66.000 a day). Once we pledge in writing what we say we want, we emit a powerful energy force which first gives birth in the unseen world followed by birth in 3D.
Dictionary.com defines clarity as “clearness or lucidity as to perception or understanding; freedom from indistinctness or ambiguity”. Clarity commences when you enthusiastically write down your dreams and wishes. No matter how silly, large or small… they are your dreams.. I use the phrase what you say you want because so many of us will ask for something in a nebulous manner and wonder why we are dissatisfied when we create our request. For instance, if a woman says she wants a man that is exactly what she will manifest, a man. He may not be the right height, devoid of morals, character, and spiritual/religious beliefs that resonate with her or even treat her with respect. But, she will have a man. Using the energetic force of clarity you are able define and attract to yourself the highest vibration of what you are asking for. The person will resonate with the vibe you put out into the world, increasing your chances of taking the budding relationship to the next level.
To achieve clarity – create a list of 150 qualities you would like in a relationship. Not just the personality or a person but also their character, their openness to growth. Yes 150 is a lot of qualities however it allows you to generate a pretty comprehensive list. Think about the last time you planned a gathering or went grocery shopping. More than likely you created a list so you would not forget anything. How many times have you bypassed the grocery list only to discover when you returned home that you had forgotten the main item that you wanted from the store? The same holds true with creating a relationship you don’t want to leave anything out. The list is always a work in progress and you can ALWAYS change your mind as you meet people and reverberate positively or negatively with their energy. This list will assist you in manifesting the person you can spend the rest of your life with by changing the vibe you are putting out into the world. Once the list is complete read it every day. It will take about 3 minutes which is no time at all for creating your hearts desire.
If you have difficulty in coming up with your list of 150 qualities, first create a list of what you do not want. Then take out another sheet of paper and change your don’t want into a want. Creating by contrast is an excellent way for obtain clarity.
2. Belief.
What is your BS (belief system)? Do you feel at the gut level that you deserve a mate? Are you worthy? Have you seen relationships that did not work out (parents, friends) and you have an unconscious fear that you will create the same pattern? Belief is defined as “confidence in the truth or existence of something not immediately susceptible to rigorous proof”. What are your beliefs connected to relationships? Do you believe that the opposite sex is nothing but liars and cheaters? If your belief system is comprised of any negative beliefs around deserving or being worthy of a relationship you will manifest what you believe. “Remember”, when we create we transmit an energy field or vibration which goes out and seeks a resonating vibration and transports it right back to us. If you are confused about what you really believe, take an objective look at your love life. Do you have what you want? Are you satisfied? Are you secure with who you are in regards to relationships? If not, no worries the opportunity for transformation always exists. The foundation for change is within each of us. The only requirement is to step out of our contentment zone with awareness and trust the Universe will sustain us on our path. Many people approach a relationship with the idea that they can change the other person. That type of change never occurs. One of the reasons the divorce rate in the US is 52% is because people want to change/control their mate. People mature and at their own rate. Chorological age has nothing to do with maturity. We have the opportunity to grow as long as we inhabit a physical body. And even after we leave the body the growth continues on a different dimension. You have the choice to either grow with someone or grow apart from them. Talking a look at your life will tell you exactly where your BS (belief system) resides.
3 Gratitude
You have heard the saying the attitude of gratitude. What is gratitude? Gratitude is the state of being thankful. Gratitude is a form of love and love flows throughout all forms of manifestation. Be grateful for the perceived positive and negative in our life. Learn the lesson from negative experiences so you never have to encounter it again. Once the lesson is learned the energy field clears out old out dated thinking along with the residue of negative thoughts and positive energy replenishes the space. If you keep attracting the same type of relationship you have not learned your particular lesson. Take a serious look at why you are attracting a person who is codependent even though you say you are not interested in that type of relationship. Get to the root of that need, heal and let go of that need never to bring it back into your existence again.
4. Intention
Setting our intention is crucial to the whole creation process. Intention states to the Universe what it is you expect to have in your life. Intention tells the Universe that you are ready for your divine birthright. Once your intention is set the Universe will rally behind you to construct the energy of what you are asking for. Write your intention down. As you commit your intention to writing the energy becomes intense and more heart centered. Use the energy of intention in all aspects of your life and watch as your life perfectly unfolds. You become a deliberate conscious creator walking to the beat of your drum living in bliss.
5. Focus
After you have created your desire with clarity, believe in your ability to manifest 100%, expressed your gratitude and set your intention, the next step is to focus on what you desire. You focus by giving your desire attention each day and keeping your thoughts positive. Use positive words when talking or thinking about what you want. Day dream about it, feel your desire coming to you. As you keep the energy of your desire in the forefront of your mind the Universe will get behind that energy and send it right to you. A perfect time to focus is when you initially wake up in the morning and right before you go to sleep at night. This is a time when your subconscious mind is open to receiving your thoughts without all of the other clutter that clogs up our mind. Meditation is a wonderful way to focus. If you can not quiet your mind, focus positively on what you are looking to manifest. If you share your dream with someone and they can not get onboard with you, don’t include them in your circle of support for manifesting your dream. Sometimes people are afraid to take a step for themselves and they project that fear onto others. Just send it back with love and keep striving toward your dream.
If Betty and Jim would have invoked the principles presented above before they met at the mall one of two things would have happened. They would have never been attracted to each other because their vibration was not a match ( they would have gained their clarity beforehand) or they would have had a strong attraction and the relationship would have progressed further because they were on the same wave length in many areas not just loneliness.
The steps described above do not guarantee anything as there are no guarantees in life. Deciding to make use of the 5 steps to finding your Twin Flame relationship you will match the energy flow of what you say you want. Once you are swimming in the sea of creation energy miracles happen. Happy manifesting!
Monique Chapman is an Intuitive Consultant who assists men and women to intuitively rediscover who they are. She is the author of Getting Your M and M’s The Men and Money Book and the host of the award winning radio show Walking with Spirit. For more information visit www.healing-visions.com
Finding Your Twin Flame
Hello, seekers of Twin Flame relationships! Looking for the relationship that fulfills your Soul? Read further and learn 5 steps which will enhance your energy field allowing you to unite with your Twin Flame. As you “remember” the information presented, your feelings of being “all one” with the creative source will flood your DNA and cells raising your vibratory rate to be a magnet for creating the relationship that is divinely yours.
Oh where, oh where can my perfect mate be? Oh where, oh where can they be? Once you meet someone and establish a base level connection, do you find yourself thinking this could be the one only to have the relationship fall apart in the not very distant future? Does that cycle constantly replicate itself? What can be done to improve your probability to make the right connection? Plenty! Let’s side step all of the drama and unearth your ideal relationship with the steps outlined below.
When we meet someone that we are interested in romantically, often we are so overwhelmed with the ecstatic electric/sexy energy flowing between us that we often overlook the raw energy that is really being presented. That raw energy is not something that we perceive with our 5 senses. Most people have a gut feeling about someone they have just met. The gut intuition is the raw true energy that a person radiates. Many people over look that sensation because they want to be in relationship and they feel they can heal or “fix” the other person.
Betty met Jim the day after Thanksgiving at the local mall. Her energy was emitting at a low frequency because she was disheartened about not being in a relationship at the beginning of the Holiday season. She felt alone, she felt like a loser, she felt unloved. Her parents were expecting her to be “settled” by now. Jim was in the same space as he and his ex girlfriend had just broken off their relationship 2 months earlier and he had yet to make another connection. Both parties had bought into the mass consciousness mind set that if you are not in a relationship during the Holidays it is impossible to be happy alone.
When Jim approached Betty and asked her to go for coffee, he had her full attention. It seemed like love at first sight. They were inseparable for 6 weeks (the Holiday season) then as quickly as they began they ended. What happened outside of the obvious? They had not prepared themselves for the meeting. They did not have clarity about what they really wanted nor did they utilize the energetic tools of creation to co-create a deliberate conscious relationship.
Let’s talk about the 5 steps.
1. Clarity is a co-first step with desire. Having a desire or wanting something is essential in order to have a point of creation. Dictinary.com defines desire as “to express a wish to obtain; ask for; request”. By writing down what you desire you are able to literally see what you are asking for. So many people keep everything in their heads which is cluttered with all of our other thoughts. (Studies have shown that the average person thinks 66.000 a day). Once we pledge in writing what we say we want, we emit a powerful energy force which first gives birth in the unseen world followed by birth in 3D.
Dictionary.com defines clarity as “clearness or lucidity as to perception or understanding; freedom from indistinctness or ambiguity”. Clarity commences when you enthusiastically write down your dreams and wishes. No matter how silly, large or small… they are your dreams.. I use the phrase what you say you want because so many of us will ask for something in a nebulous manner and wonder why we are dissatisfied when we create our request. For instance, if a woman says she wants a man that is exactly what she will manifest, a man. He may not be the right height, devoid of morals, character, and spiritual/religious beliefs that resonate with her or even treat her with respect. But, she will have a man. Using the energetic force of clarity you are able define and attract to yourself the highest vibration of what you are asking for. The person will resonate with the vibe you put out into the world, increasing your chances of taking the budding relationship to the next level.
To achieve clarity – create a list of 150 qualities you would like in a relationship. Not just the personality or a person but also their character, their openness to growth. Yes 150 is a lot of qualities however it allows you to generate a pretty comprehensive list. Think about the last time you planned a gathering or went grocery shopping. More than likely you created a list so you would not forget anything. How many times have you bypassed the grocery list only to discover when you returned home that you had forgotten the main item that you wanted from the store? The same holds true with creating a relationship you don’t want to leave anything out. The list is always a work in progress and you can ALWAYS change your mind as you meet people and reverberate positively or negatively with their energy. This list will assist you in manifesting the person you can spend the rest of your life with by changing the vibe you are putting out into the world. Once the list is complete read it every day. It will take about 3 minutes which is no time at all for creating your hearts desire.
If you have difficulty in coming up with your list of 150 qualities, first create a list of what you do not want. Then take out another sheet of paper and change your don’t want into a want. Creating by contrast is an excellent way for obtain clarity.
2. Belief.
What is your BS (belief system)? Do you feel at the gut level that you deserve a mate? Are you worthy? Have you seen relationships that did not work out (parents, friends) and you have an unconscious fear that you will create the same pattern? Belief is defined as “confidence in the truth or existence of something not immediately susceptible to rigorous proof”. What are your beliefs connected to relationships? Do you believe that the opposite sex is nothing but liars and cheaters? If your belief system is comprised of any negative beliefs around deserving or being worthy of a relationship you will manifest what you believe. “Remember”, when we create we transmit an energy field or vibration which goes out and seeks a resonating vibration and transports it right back to us. If you are confused about what you really believe, take an objective look at your love life. Do you have what you want? Are you satisfied? Are you secure with who you are in regards to relationships? If not, no worries the opportunity for transformation always exists. The foundation for change is within each of us. The only requirement is to step out of our contentment zone with awareness and trust the Universe will sustain us on our path. Many people approach a relationship with the idea that they can change the other person. That type of change never occurs. One of the reasons the divorce rate in the US is 52% is because people want to change/control their mate. People mature and at their own rate. Chorological age has nothing to do with maturity. We have the opportunity to grow as long as we inhabit a physical body. And even after we leave the body the growth continues on a different dimension. You have the choice to either grow with someone or grow apart from them. Talking a look at your life will tell you exactly where your BS (belief system) resides.
3 Gratitude
You have heard the saying the attitude of gratitude. What is gratitude? Gratitude is the state of being thankful. Gratitude is a form of love and love flows throughout all forms of manifestation. Be grateful for the perceived positive and negative in our life. Learn the lesson from negative experiences so you never have to encounter it again. Once the lesson is learned the energy field clears out old out dated thinking along with the residue of negative thoughts and positive energy replenishes the space. If you keep attracting the same type of relationship you have not learned your particular lesson. Take a serious look at why you are attracting a person who is codependent even though you say you are not interested in that type of relationship. Get to the root of that need, heal and let go of that need never to bring it back into your existence again.
4. Intention
Setting our intention is crucial to the whole creation process. Intention states to the Universe what it is you expect to have in your life. Intention tells the Universe that you are ready for your divine birthright. Once your intention is set the Universe will rally behind you to construct the energy of what you are asking for. Write your intention down. As you commit your intention to writing the energy becomes intense and more heart centered. Use the energy of intention in all aspects of your life and watch as your life perfectly unfolds. You become a deliberate conscious creator walking to the beat of your drum living in bliss.
5. Focus
After you have created your desire with clarity, believe in your ability to manifest 100%, expressed your gratitude and set your intention, the next step is to focus on what you desire. You focus by giving your desire attention each day and keeping your thoughts positive. Use positive words when talking or thinking about what you want. Day dream about it, feel your desire coming to you. As you keep the energy of your desire in the forefront of your mind the Universe will get behind that energy and send it right to you. A perfect time to focus is when you initially wake up in the morning and right before you go to sleep at night. This is a time when your subconscious mind is open to receiving your thoughts without all of the other clutter that clogs up our mind. Meditation is a wonderful way to focus. If you can not quiet your mind, focus positively on what you are looking to manifest. If you share your dream with someone and they can not get onboard with you, don’t include them in your circle of support for manifesting your dream. Sometimes people are afraid to take a step for themselves and they project that fear onto others. Just send it back with love and keep striving toward your dream.
If Betty and Jim would have invoked the principles presented above before they met at the mall one of two things would have happened. They would have never been attracted to each other because their vibration was not a match ( they would have gained their clarity beforehand) or they would have had a strong attraction and the relationship would have progressed further because they were on the same wave length in many areas not just loneliness.
The steps described above do not guarantee anything as there are no guarantees in life. Deciding to make use of the 5 steps to finding your Twin Flame relationship you will match the energy flow of what you say you want. Once you are swimming in the sea of creation energy miracles happen. Happy manifesting!
Monique Chapman is an Intuitive Consultant who assists men and women to intuitively rediscover who they are. She is the author of Getting Your M and M’s The Men and Money Book and the host of the award winning radio show Walking with Spirit. For more information visit www.healing-visions.com
