Midlife Mojo- How to get through the Midlife Crisis and Emerge as Your True Self!

 What is this thing we call "MIdlife Crisis"? Is it something we all have to go through?

It is my belief that the so called “midlife crisis” is really a metamorphosis that transforms and transitions us from our socialized self, to our true self, the person we came here to be.

We are each as unique and individual as a snowflake, and because of this, there  is no universal purpose in life. Each of us has our own distinct path to follow and our own  reason for being here. It is our job to find our ‘calling’ and wake up to our true potential before we transition again through death.

I believe the “Crisis” is a wake up call, intended to help us remember our raison d’etre. For some it’s a gentle tap on the shoulder, for others it an all out shake up of their lives. Many of us sleep so soundly it muffles the Universe’s call.

You may hear it as a whisper, a subtle unrest, a sensation of being uncomfortable, like your world is slightly tilted. You aren’t happy or sad, you just are. For others the call is so loud it drives them to shatter their lives and run amok like a Bull in a China Shop, destroying everything and everyone in their path without intention or thought. Neither is right nor wrong, it just is the way your true self is trying to emerge and make itself known. Once you understand this, you can get down to the business of finding out what it is you want to remember.

Maybe you have experienced a desire for wanderlust and hit the open road in a newly purchased sports car or motorcycle. Perhaps you left your great paying job to play guitar in coffee houses or paint on the beach. You exchanged your wife for a hot chick half your age and half hoped  she’d fall for the pool boy so you wouldn’t feel so guilty. When  all was said and done though, you still didn’t feel any better. Something was still missing. Right! You didn’t ‘get your Mojo back”.

Why not?

What happened?

If you are stuggling with your Midlife Crisis or just wish to learn how to CHANGE YOUR LIFE, it is all explained in the book, however do be prepared to do some work if you wish your change to take place. This book is as much a work book as it is informational and instructional.  Life is  an inside job and your workplace for change lies in your mind.

I believe the timing of Midlife is as divine as it gets. We are old enough to have experienced many life events and young enough to learn from past mistakes.  If we are lucky, we have at least another 20 or 30 years left to make them count for something amazing.. 

If you find yourself seeking your Purpose, looking for your Passion and wondering  ‘what is the meaning of Life’, then chances are you are about to “wake up to your True Self! 

Perhaps you woke up one morning realizing that this is your LIFE!!! This is all it will ever be if you don’t BREAK away from it and live your truth.  Did you finally come to  understand that you will “exist’ out the rest of your days instead of LIVE them? If you find this too depressing to contemplate, don’t worry, I can help you.  Midlife Mojo is a prescription for change. I will show you step by step how to change your inside world, so that your outside world will match.

Your MOJO is missing, but it’s not LOST!!!

Mojo is derived from the African word Moyo, a word from the Congo meaning Life Force, or Soul. It’s your Vitality and it thrives when you are present and joyful.

Right now, your flame may be so low you fear it’s gone out, but I promise you it hasn’t. What you are experiencing is just the numbness from years of low self esteem, negative self talk, fear, doubt and any number of other roadblocks to your happiness that have presented themselves in your life.

If this sounds like you then understand that The  Universe is calling you. The question is, are you going to answer it?

Some of us get angry, some of us get depressed and some of us throw away our lives in an effort to ‘find’ our missing parts, but there is a better way.

Midlife Mojo, is a “to do” book, a step by step prescription for change that will assist you in finding out your truth. It is designed with you in mind to help you overcome the obstacles that have you trapped within your comfort zone.

Through my book, I promise to stand beside you and  hold your faith, your hand and your attention until you are able to find your Mojo for yourself and be the person you were born to be!

Together we will work through powerful exercises that will enable you to find your Purpose, your passion and your true self.

Using this book as a guide, you will learn to overcome negative self talk and doubt, you will come out of your comfort zone  and take your  fears head on

I will teach you about ‘underlying automatic commitments’ or UAC’s so they can no longer sabotage your conscious efforts. I will explain how to rewrite the software of your mind, to eliminate any negative programming that is responsible for distorting your self image and self worth.

Most of all, I will teach you how to CHOOSE the life you want to live, instead of living in Default.

The purpose of life is Joy and once you find it, you will KNOW that you are on the right track.

You will be unstoppable too!